Monday, May 31, 2010

Day 145 I wouldn't want it any other way

145 days have passed, and it's time for me to go home.

I wouldn't say that time has passed quickly here, but looking back, the happy times does seem to flash across as if they only happened in seconds and not in days. I still remember my first day here in Helsinki, amazed that my plane could still land despite the snow on the ground of the airport. I was excited about the snow, excited about everything, but at the same time, extremely nervous about what I was getting myself into. It was only 4 pm, and the sky was pitch dark. I remember looking at the moon, the dark woods next to my apartment, the white snow on the ground and just feeling that I am in for an adventure of a life-time.

Before I went on this exchange, I tried to lay out what I wanted to achieve and do here:
1. Meeting people from everywhere.
2. Travel to eastern european countries.
3. Write a blog and update it everyday.
4. Take Finance courses here.

In a way, I have achieved everything.

Meet people from everywhere- Done.
Exchange would not be the same, if not for the fellow exchange students here. I remember not knowing anyone (except Andy from my school) before I came, nervous whether I would meet friends or not. Then going to the orientation day and being divided into tutor groups, getting to know more and more people. I wish I have more time to engage in conversations with more people and know people better. There are so many friends I get to only talk to them towards the end of exchange, it's really such a pity that we haven't talked sooner. I befriended Barbora (she comes from the exotic country of Slovakia, and she studies in Vienna), we always hang out and explore different places together. Such good memories!

Travel to eastern european countries- Done.
One of the reasons why I went to Helsinki is to travel to european countries, especially eastern european countries, which are not very well known to Hong Kong people. I have travelled to Bratislava, Vienna, Budapest, Riga, Tallinn and (non-eastern european places), such as London, Stockholm. I am happy that I managed to have a great time in all the countries, especially in Bratislava, where I met Barbora's cool friends.

Write a blog and update it everyday- Done.
Having a blog is quite a dangerous thing, especially one without any security locks. But I think that this exchange is such a unique one that I wanted to share with everyone about what I did everyday (if they are interested) and I want this to be my memories. So this is what I did, I wrote a blog every single day, from Day 1 to Day 145. I am extremely proud of myself for doing it.

Take Finance courses here- Done.
I wasn't really satisfied with the information system courses that I took last semester, everything the IS courses taught me was too technical, as opposed to the courses in Global Business. I didn't know what I wanted to do with myself, so I wanted to explore some options here on exchange. I have only taken Finance courses here and 1 Finnish culture and language course, and so far, I am satisfied with what I am dealing with.

I did everything I wanted to do here, plus quite a bit of surprises. I think these surprises and experiences combined helped me to move on to the next step of maturity. Exchange is a great way to challenge yourself and to hit a new high when you have hit a plateau in life.

This exchange, in a way, slowed me down, and made me more aware of myself, how I deal with situations, and analyze what I can learn from it. I remember on our biking tour in Budapest, Barbora and I had a long talk about what we have learnt from the exchange, and what we can do to improve ourselves. It is so good to have a friend to share all these things to, and together, grow up and be a better person.

Exchange people here are extremely interesting and some inspiring. It made me realize (yea, this is cliche), the world is actually quite big, and there are a lot of different kinds of people living their lives. I am really amazed by the things that people do/did before they go on exchange, compared to them, my path seems mundane and boring (haha).

Talking about luck, I think it is really on my side during the entire exchange. I met good friends, for life, had extremely fruitful experiences academically and personally. Quite a bit depressed at first, because I don't know what I am going to do this summer, but everything worked out at the end.

So this is the end of my exchange. I don't know whether I would return to Helsinki or Finland in the next 10 years, but everything that happened here, it would forever be in my memories (plus I have this blog to remind myself, I think I will make this blog a book). This experience is such a unique one, that I wouldn't want it any other way. I am so sure that all my friends are moving on to something big and something interesting. All the best to all of you! Thank you for making my exchange such an interesting one!

Stay young my friends, I hope we will meet again someday! If any of you ever go to Hong Kong, drop me a line on fb, or e-mail!

3 comments:

  1. hey are you still gonna update your blog? or are you done? I think you should talk about post-exchange syndrome

    des

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  3. I am a student from Canada and I am trying to decide whether I should go to Vienna or Helsinki on exchange. Would you be willing to help me out with this?? I know it's weird having some random girl from Canada ask you questions about Helsinki but I love your blog and I'd love to hear your take on my dilema.

    I will leave an email so you can contact me if you would like to help. If not that's totally cool too haha. My email is r_mats_4@hotmail.com.

    Thanks so much!!! Again, I love your blog!

    Renee

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